In today’s vlog, I talk about a recent video I posted on Instagram that triggered a wave of hate in the comments.

I break down why the backlash doesn't surprise me, why it won’t change how we coach, and how it reveals something deeper about the modern dating world.

If you're interested in real self-improvement — the kind that happens in real life, not just in theory — this episode is for you.

👇 Key themes in this vlog:
– Why public backlash is often proof you're on the right track
– What this hate says about modern dating culture
– Why our coaching process won't change
– The importance of emotional resilience in a reactive world

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#434 - So Much Hate for One Video – But I’m Not Backing Down

In this episode, I explore why starting over in life feels so difficult yet is often the most powerful step toward real growth. I share personal stories from my own journey and from clients who have faced major turning points, and I walk you through what it truly takes to rebuild with strength and purpose.

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#500 - The Protocol For Starting Again In Your Dating Life

The secret to dating success is drama therapy. In this episode, I reveal how using drama therapy transforms not only your dating results but also your entire sense of confidence and self-expression. I explain what drama therapy actually is, how acting out your emotions or projecting situations helps you release old patterns, and why this process creates genuine change. You’ll hear real examples from past coaching sessions that show exactly how this approach helps men move past fear, embody confidence, and connect more authentically with women.

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#501 - The Secret To Dating Success (Drama Therapy)

When it comes to dating, every man believes confidence is the key. But real self-confidence is not about pretending to be fearless, saying the right line, or acting like you do not care. It is about building inner strength that cannot be taken away by rejection, silence, or anyone’s opinion of you. In this episode, we are breaking down the six pillars of self-confidence — the foundations that separate men who chase validation from those who create attraction effortlessly. Because if you do not build these pillars inside yourself first, every interaction you have with a woman will rest on shaky ground.
 

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#502 - Your Six Pillars of Self-Confidence

In this episode, I share a powerful story from a recent two-day training course where I worked with a client on one key area that changed everything for him—his incentives. Once we adjusted what was driving his actions, his dating results transformed almost overnight. Listen to this episode if you want to understand how shifting your internal motivations can dramatically improve your dating success.

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#503 - Change Your Incentives To Change Your Dating Results

In this episode, I reveal the silent trap that catches many high-achieving men: believing that their success, title, or reputation automatically make them attractive to women. In business, status earns respect. In dating, it often builds distance.

I break down how status-driven communication — talking about achievements, leading with your résumé, or expecting admiration — disconnects you from the feminine. I explain why presence, curiosity, and emotional grounding create far stronger attraction than any professional success ever could.

You’ll discover:

Why the traits that build success at work often kill chemistry with women

The hidden arrogance behind status-based communication

How to shift from leading with achievement to leading with authenticity

The mindset that makes even powerful men magnetic, not intimidating

If you’ve ever wondered why you can close deals but struggle to create real connection, this episode will show you how to escape The Status Trap.

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#504 - The Status Trap: Why Successful Men Struggle With Women

If you are trying to fix everything on the outside, like your clothes, routines, messages, or appearance, but you still feel stuck, it is because real change never starts there. True transformation begins when you turn your attention inward. What are you really struggling with? What fears are still holding you back? Until you face and release those inner blocks, no external strategy will make a lasting difference. Once you work through those fears and raise your internal frequency, everything in your dating life starts to shift naturally. You stop chasing results and start attracting them.

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#505 - Change Your Frequency, Change Your Dating Results

In this episode, I explore how most men unknowingly trap themselves within invisible walls in their dating lives. These limits often come from fear, rejection, past experiences, and the influence of others. They quietly shape what you believe is possible, who you approach, and how confident you feel.

Breaking your dating limits goes far beyond becoming more confident with women. It is about expanding how you see yourself and the impact you can have in the world. When you rise above those limits, your goals grow bigger, your sense of purpose deepens, and you feel more grounded and secure.

Listen as I help you uncover the limits that hold you back, break through them, and build a dating life that reflects your full potential.

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#506 - Break Your Dating Limits Before They Break You

My name is Gary Gunn, and in this podcast, I will save you thousands of hours of pain, frustration and isolation in your dating life.

I will give you tried and tested dating advice that will make you a more confident, more attractive and a more desired man. 

I will show you how to transform your dating life, one podcast episode at a time, and more importantly, have some fun on your journey.

#434 - So Much Hate for One Video – But I’m Not Backing Down

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