A Choice for BEING Interesting Point of View.

  How often do you make a choice to BE an action that creates interesting point of view?  

Most of us are trying to make a choice that creates the result we want, or to avoid a result, which is not interesting point of view.  

It is control.  

If you truly desire a different reality, what if it wasn’t about the choice, but the energy you have and the space you’re willing to be when you’re choosing?

  Life is a brilliant adventure and if this audio contributes to you, welcome to the invitation to a different possibility where you get to be you!  

And your life can truly become the space you’ve always desired without the upset of being frustrated by the results you are trying so hard to create.  

The results would be so much greater if you just let go.  

What else is possible?

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A choice to BE that is the change...

Contrary to popular belief, fights are not better talked out to the bitter end and happiness and intimacy are not the result of more loving couples. It really comes down to how you manage these perpetual fights.  I want to give you the main reasons people end separating or remain happy and together - based a couple different disciplines of research. Because a lot of what is the most damaging, isn’t obvious or calculated by a person. It’s totally accidental. 

When we have the same arguments and we start to get distant, it’s often because we don’t want to fight and we have a sense of dread around a repeated loop, so the distance is like a no-war zone between two foreign cultures. And the SHITTY news is when you get distant, your relationship is actually in the most trouble – because both parties are no longer demonstrating an investment in the bond. This is when you stop identifying as a couple and you start thinking in terms of me, the individual. And with that solo identity you start to focus on goals as an individual and not as a couple. Your focus redefines your past together as crappy – you see things from a personal interest standpoint. So if you guys are feeling distant and resentful, this is an episode for you! 

Caveat: I want to stress that this is NOT for people with abusive partners. Domestic violence is not something that I recommend using these tools for – if you’re in an abusive relationship, my heart goes out to you. If you like this episode, check the Gottman Institute for more! A lot of this is from his work.

For more of my writing and the blog version of this post, check out Yaywithme.com (the blogs will be posted a bit later than the podcasts). 

Book references:
Couples counselor questionnaire:
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How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It
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John Gottman’s most popular book:
http://amzn.to/2o3HxHU
The Gottman Institute – all their good, short articles. 
gottman.com
A book by the creator of Imago:
http://amzn.to/2onby1d
What to look for in a couples counselor:
http://www.marriagefriendlytherapists.com/whattolookfor.php

Help Me Be Me

Ep 93: Relationship Fight Loops and Distance: Why We Lose Access to Intimacy

What if you acknowledged you everyday?

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What have you been aware of in people's bodies? What if bodies are not sick? What information are bodies giving us? 

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Help Me Be Me is an emotional toolkit for creating positive change in yourself. I like to think of it as self-help for people who hate self-help. I'm Sarah May, coach/mom/all-around happy person, and these are the tools that work for me in my life. For all of my offerings you can check out YayWithMe.com What I share is my personal opinion. It's not a diagnosis for treatment or a substitute for professional help. If you're suffering, please reach out to your local emergency services or call 9-1-1. Music theme created by www.BookerHillMusic.com