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The Characteristics of Righteous Wife - By Abu Khadeejah

[10/09/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 1] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- Harmonising between the rights.
- The virtue of attending the gatherings where Allāh is remembered.
- The greatness of the rights of the husband.
- The reason Allāh has given the men authority over the women.
- The different and distinct characteristics possessed by men and women.
- Changing the name of something does not change its reality.

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[18/09/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 2] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- The husband and wife are awliyā (friends, helpers, supporters) of one another.
- Our nature defines our roles.
- The obligation and great reward for fulfilling the duties towards the husband.
- Three things that bring about happiness and three that bring about misery.
- The woman/man should be a good investment for the other.
- The husband and wife remain allies to one another regardless of the circumstances.

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Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- Husbands also have duties towards their wives.
- The wife being patient in times of hardship and grateful in times of ease.
- The calamity of the whisperings of shaytān and evil advisors upon a marriage.
- Obedience to the husband is given precedence over optional acts of worship.
- The corruption caused by the indoctrination of liberalism, communism and other ideologies.
- Advising the husband in a manner that brings about benefit.
- Ahādith regarding the consequences of a woman being disobedient to her husband, dishonouring him and being ungrateful. 
- The importance of intimacy between the spouses.

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[09/10/2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 4] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

Some of the points discussed in this lesson:

- The importance of protecting yourself and your family from the traps of modern society.
- The great blessing of being granted a righteous, Salafī husband.
- Beware of ingratitude to your husband.
- The excellent example of Khadījah (رضى الله عنها).
- Ahādīth regarding the rights of the wife over her husband.
- Ahādīth regarding the duty of the man to provide for his family.
- Being grateful for what Allāh has given you.

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[23th October 2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 6] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

- Guarding the secrets of the home.
- Maintaining one’s physical appearance and beautiful character.
- The importance of seeking the husband’s permission and consulting with him.
- The prohibition of asking for divorce without a valid reason.
- The importance of cultivating our children, and the outcome of not doing so.

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[30th October 2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 7] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

[Lesson 07]

- The outward manifestations of the state of the heart.
- The impermissibility of reviling and cursing one’s husband.
- The necessity of gratitude to one’s husband for his good treatment.
- How the Prophet ﷺ was in his home.
- The meaning and ruling of a woman removing her clothes outside of her husband’s home.

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[6th November 2021] The Characteristics Of A Righteous Wife [Lesson 8] – By Abu Khadeejah ‘Abdul-Wāhid.

- The wife striving to please her husband in any way possible.
- Imām adh-Dhahabī (رحمه الله) on how a woman should pursue the pleasure of her husband.
- The Messenger’s ﷺ command to the men to take care of and be kind to the women.
- Ibn al-Qayyim (رحمه الله) on the wife serving her husband.
- The advice of Umāmah bint al-Hārith to her daughter on the day of her marriage.
- The sweetness of Īmān.

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