Problems are teachers, not persecutors.  Many see problems as the thing that’s breaking them.  No, problems are what's teaching where you are arguing against the truth.  They show where we are absent a tool to create change.  In this episode, I share how to look at problems with curiosity so that you can be the creator around the problem.

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Ep 77 Creating Your Way Through Problems

Divorce is an ending. But as with all endings, it is a new beginning.  In this episode, I talk about why it’s important to start the new beginning with clear intentions for your life, and not let the new beginning be dictated by the past, or by some professional who may be in your life for just a short window of time.

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Ep 78 Being Responsible for Setting a New Beginning

Divorce presents a lot of “unwelcomes”.  Yet, it also presents the opportunity to truly exam your life right now.  In this episode, I speak to the trap of waiting on time as one sits with a grievance, and how to move from this exile towards the miracle lying within each grievance.

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Ep 79 An Unexamined Divorce is a Lost Opportunity

Philosophy works to identify differences between similar themes, like justice and fairness.  We want justice and fairness in divorce. Is it possible to have both?  In this episode, Steve talks about justice and fairness, and explains how we can control the impact of less than ideal outcomes on who we are and the life we want to live.  

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Ep 80 Difference Between Justice and Fairness

Anger is a natural expression to situations that harm our body, family, and property.  It’s when we allow anger toward these situations to harm our character do we permit ourselves to experience even greater harm.  In this episode, I share a Stoic tool for tackling anger by looking at the judgements we cast towards situations.  It’s understanding these judgements that hold the key to tackling anger.  I also explain how to  diffuse unnecessary expressions and repressions of anger through the virtue of kindness.

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Ep. 81 Tackling Anger and Winning

Your attention is a commodity. It's actually the most valuable commodity in my mind.  It’s something that’s been up from grabs prior to your divorce and is certainly up for grabs during and after. In this episode, I share an exercise to help you stop the time thieves and bring your focus to what’s important now.  

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Ep. 81 Be Stingy with Your Attention

Listen as I launch Season 2.  The theme for Season 2 is “Beyond”.  We are moving beyond divorce towards the person you want to be and the life you want to live using the tools, strategies, and wisdom learned through season 1 - the transition through divorce.  

Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/.

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Ep. 83 Transitioning to a New Season

Is “not ever getting married again” the only thing you learned from your divorce? There is a deeper question, possibly one that resides around the question, “What was it all for?”  In this episode, Steve continues on the theme of the Hero’s Journey and uses divorce as the “falling event” that opens up the call to adventure.  He uses his own learning around dying to one’s definition of success as an example.  
 
Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/.

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Ep. 84 Dying to Your Idea of Success

Your success with fully moving beyond divorce rests on your ability to accept the denied parts of yourself, or what psychologists call the shadow.  In this episode, I speak to “aimless anger,” and dive into a recent event that caused anger to uncover part of my shadow-self I have been denying.
    
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Ep. 85 Shadowboxing "Aimless Anger"

In this episode, we talk about money and it’s purpose as a teacher.  Money brings out our greatest fears, yearnings, secrets, and needs.  Our response to money, irrespective if we have it or not, highlights the path for our soul’s growth.
  
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Ep 86 Money is Your Teacher

Divorce is unlike any other life transition.  The loss of dreams and identities, that once were strong, guiding attachments, bring complex emotions that are hard to understand and release.  In this episode, I share a recent story of stored sadness catching me off guard, and how I went about releasing it.  

Visit to learn more about https://youtreecoaching.com/finding-prosperity/.

"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" Patreon page gives listeners access to target support that matches where they are in the divorce process. https://www.patreon.com/bePatron?u=72246018&amp;redirect_uri=https://youtreecoaching.com/support-tools/&amp;utm_medium=widget

Ep 77 Creating Your Way Through Problems

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