Moving On: Tips, tools and expert information on moving on to a healthy, happy and thriving life!

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Rules versus boundaries (and how to break the rules) in both the personal and professional elements of life. Be ready to "Break The Rules" in relationships, professionally and other aspects of our personal lives for FULFILLING, ABUNDANT, HAPPY SUCCESS in love and business.

rules vs boundaries

The comfort zone can keep us trapped our entire lives if we aren’t paying attention. It keeps us locked in patterns that frustrate us and make us feel we’ll be stuck in the same place forever. As a result, it keeps us from living the life we say we want. We say we want change, but fear pulls us back into the comfort zone because it’s safe (and our subconscious LOVES safe!). Our old beliefs keep us stagnant. 

We stay in our comfort zone for five reasons: familiarity, limitation, validation, control and fear of the unknown. Getting out of it is hard, but creating the motivation for change (which we all have the power to do), can lead to the life you actually want!

The Comfort Zone (And How to Get Out!)

Wild Hot Radiant! (actually everyday should be wild, hot and radiant!) We discussed the deep pleasures of being a woman, as they, my two guests Jane Warren and Kate Rouze, shared the innate abilities women have to live from a place of feminine power while bringing forth the true masculinity in men in their lives. 

We can change our relationships by taking care of our needs, instead of being needy, we become an object of desire (whatever you create, you emanate), learn how to go deeper for more pleasure in and outside of your intimate relationship.

Wild!Hot!Radiant!

Do we sabotage ourselves… and if so, do we do it on purpose? Self-sabotage stems from fear, and is a means of keeping us in our comfort zone where everything is familiar and safe. The subconscious often drives sabotaging behavior, so the key is becoming aware of how you’re standing in your own way. Ever notice how you stop something GOOD from happening, even when it’s what you say you want? Maybe it’s a healthy relationship or dream job that you eventually screw up. Why? Anxiety, fear and/or lack of control are usually the cause because the outcome of what you want is new and uncertain.

Let’s look beyond external validation and change the way we perceive opportunity so we can get what we want! We don’t get there by attaching to outcomes; we achieve our goals by surrendering. Getting uncomfortable is mandatory when surrendering to what is, and recognizing the self-sabotage that keeps you stuck right where you are. To get different results, you must do things differently. Listen in to learn how to create different thoughts, patterns and possibilities.

Surrendering Before We Bottom Out and Sabotage Ourselves

Four Tools For How To Manifest without words. Segment #1 is about taking words out of the game. Not only does this work magic as part of manifesting, it also relaxes us, enhances mindfulness, connects us, opens us up, creates peace inside--happiness, can cure some ailments (though I don't claim any specific cures, as I am not in that business), help with weight loss, basically anything you struggle with, this can help!!! (Inspired by Martha Beck "Finding Your Way In A Wild New World)

Four Tools For How To Manifest without words.  Segment #1

Moving On! Yes, we have moved on from surviving to thriving as an interview style show and have landed here. Join me as we explore what guests have been able to leave behind to get to happier, healthier and more authentic lives! Each episode will include tips, tools and expert information, and today's guest brings it! Colleen McCann, Founder of Style Rituals & Author of Crystal Rx is a fashion stylist turned cultural mystic, who aims to bring clarity, guidance & self-care practices to her clients. Today she shares with me how she unexpectedly found herself going down a path she had never imagined. Her life took such a turn that she literally thought something was wrong with her, only to find that she was being called to a higher calling. Learn how she brought aspects of her old life into her new and some great tools for you to use in helping you to discover your own road to moving on! You can find Colleen at: 

Website: https://www.stylerituals.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/styleritualspage
IG: https://www.instagram.com/style_rituals/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/style_rituals?lang=en

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Moving On to a Healthy and Thriving Life! with Colleen McCann

In this episode, Angela Foster shares her journey from leaving her corporate job as a lawyer after struggling with post-partum depression after having her kids. She had always loved fitness and decided to dive deeper to get healthier for herself and her kids.

Here's what we talked about:
-Feeling like a failure when you don't get everything done like you usually do when you're struggling with mental health
-Feeling like you're not good enough as a new mom
-Interrupting the patterns that enable us to sabotage ourselves
-How stimulating your mind can help you
-Your health is the fundamental pillar of your wellbeing
-Focusing on recovery to become a peak performer
-How Angela found spirituality and meditation

Here's more about Angela:
DNA Edge Founder Angela Foster left the world of Corporate Law to become a Nutritionist, Health, and Performance Coach after overcoming a serious illness. She started her journey by overcoming a PCOS, she then became a mom of 3 kids, her struggle with postnatal depression and double pneumonia simultaneously helped to find her mission "to inspire and educate others to live an energetic, healthful and limitless life."

Website: https://angelafosterperformance.com/
Facebook: @AngelaFosterPerformance
Instagram: @angelasfoster

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Moving On to a Healthy and Thriving Life! with Angela Foster

Dr. Ish Major got into mental health from an early age. Today he joins me to share his story of becoming one of the top psychiatrists in the country. He shares the influence his parents had in his life and the hurdles he had to overcome after his medical practice failed. The opportunities he created during his most challenging time are remarkable and a true testament to the power of perspective.

Here's what we talked about:
-What he learned from his parents and how it shaped his decisions in life
-The story of how his first attempt of setting up a practice failed
-How he came back from a failed practice to appearances on TV
-The difference between women and men when it comes to seeking out help
-How his personal relationships have changed since his TV career kicked off
-The impact his work has in his home state of South Carolina
-His current work in Marriage Boot Camp and why he loves it

Here's more about Dr. Ish:
Dr. Ish Major has spent the last 15 years demystifying the male psyche and helping men and women navigate their way through the dating jungle. Educated at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine, Dr. Ish is a board-certified psychiatrist who specializes in women, children and families and all things dating, mating and relating. Dr. Ish was named to the prestigious list of America's Top Psychiatrists for the last three years and is recognized by the International Association of Healthcare Professionals as one of Leading Physicians of the World. As an on-camera expert, Dr. Ish is the co-host of WeTV's hit series Marriage & Family Boot Camp Reality Stars and is a frequent guest host on The Doctors and resident expert on Access Hollywood Live, Steve, and The Today Show.

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Moving On to a Healthy and Thriving Life! with Dr. Ish Major

Shanna Lee has, as she says it, a Ph.D. in moving on. In this episode, Shanna shares her story of chasing happiness in the wrong things. After questioning her actions, career, lifestyle, and much more, she had a spiritual awakening that led her to connect to her truth. She shares how her reality shifted after she started speaking about the changes she wanted.

-Here's what we talked about:
-How having a child can bring a personal awakening to parents
-Fear-based relationships with family members
-The process of deep transformation
-How Shanna works on manifestation with her clients
-How she reconnected with her intuitive abilities in adulthood

Here's more about Shanna:
Shanna Lee is an intuitive healer and celebrity manifestation coach. She is the #1 best-selling author of The Soul Frequency: Your Healthy, Awakened, and Authentic Life and the host of The Soul Frequency Show podcast, leading the conversation on raising your energy frequency and creating a life founded on truth and alignment. She is a speaker, businesswoman, and consultant to executives of Fortune 500 companies, celebrities, influencers, and fashion industry experts.

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Moving On to a Healthy and Thriving Life! with Shanna Lee

Damona Hoffman grew up in a predominantly white suburb in Michigan, and as a biracial woman, she didn't feel she was attractive enough to date at a young age. Once she was able to celebrate her unique characteristics and learned to love them, she found her ideal partner. Damona worked in casting and teaching actors when she started noticing the similarities between casting and online dating. After she met her husband online, people started coming to her for help with their dating profiles. Using her knowledge of how to get noticed from her years in casting, she helped many people meet their significant other.

Here's what we talked about:
-Her switch between shitty dating and good dating
-Confusing initial chemistry in a date with love
-The importance of mindset in finding an ideal partner
-The visualization exercise she does with her clients
-How she manifested her husband
-How she became a dating coach after interviewing for 17 jobs and not getting any of them
-Looking for signs and confirmations that you're on the right path

Here's more about Damona:
Damona Hoffman is a dating coach & media personality who starred in two A+E Networks' TV series: #BlackLove and A Question of Love. She's a regular contributor to The Washington Post, LA Times, CNN Headline News (HLN), BET.com, and more. She also hosts and produces the weekly podcast, Dates & Mates with Damona Hoffman.

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#480 Moving On to a Healthy and Thriving Life! with Damona Hoffman

A lot of us live in our head, disconnected from our feelings and intuition. This podcast touches on releasing insecure attachment, accepting your authentic self and getting “unstuck” by connecting to how you FEEL instead of how you THINK. I’ve been there, and discuss sensitive subjects using my own experiences with a lot of laughs and even more empathy… because we’re all flawed humans.

Moving On to a Healthy and Thriving Life! with Colleen McCann

Freedom from Attachment