In this weeks episode Danny and EJ discuss the topic of CONTROL. Everyone that loves an addict reacts to the unwanted chaos the same - with CONTROL. This is 100% natural but the problem is, it's only an illusion and it only negatively impacts YOU. We are so happy you are here and hope that you share this episode with someone that needs the support.

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Ep 83: The Illusion of CONTROL

Loving someone with an addiction is gut-wrenching. The emotional rollercoaster. The confusion. The fear. And the constant question — *am I helping or hurting?* In this episode, Danny lays out 5 hard truths every parent, spouse, or loved one of an addict *must* understand if they want to stop the chaos and start the healing. It’s raw, real, and possibly the most important episode you’ll hear if you’re trying to help someone you love break free from addiction.

If you’re tired of feeling powerless, this episode is for you.

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Episode 106: 5 Hard Truths Every Family Member Needs to Face

They were doing so well... so why did they relapse?

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on one of the most painful and confusing moments in addiction recovery—relapse. It’s not about weakness. It’s not about willpower. And it’s definitely not because they "don’t want it bad enough."

We break down the five real reasons why people relapse, even when everything on the outside seems to be going right. If you’ve been blindsided by a setback—or you’re terrified one is coming—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and a practical path forward.

Whether you're the one in recovery or the one standing beside them, this conversation will shift the way you see relapse—and what you do next.
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Episode 107: The Real Reason They Relapsed. (What Every Family Needs To Know.)

Everyone focuses on the addict’s recovery — the detox, the rehab, the meetings. But what about you?
The truth is, families are often left carrying the weight of addiction alone — drowning in fear, resentment, sleepless nights, and second-guessing every decision.
In this episode, we uncover the missing piece no one talks about: family recovery. You’ll learn why your healing isn’t optional, it’s essential — not just for your well-being, but for your loved one’s chances at lasting change.

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Episode 108: The Missing Piece in Addiction Recovery No One Talks About

Every family who loves someone battling addiction has thought it—even if they’ve never said it out loud: What if they die? That unspoken fear drives sleepless nights, constant anxiety, and the guilt loop that never lets you rest.

In this episode of Your Living Proof Podcast, Danny and Emily  name the fear beneath everything and give you tools to face it head-on. Learn what you can and can’t control, how to practice anticipatory grief without being ruled by it, and why letting go of responsibility doesn’t mean letting go of love. With raw honesty and faith-filled perspective, this conversation will help you breathe again, love your addicted loved one fully, and reclaim peace in your home.

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Episode 109: What If They Die? Facing the Fear Beneath Every Sleepless Night

Do you feel restless when things are finally calm?
Do you catch yourself bracing for the next crisis… almost like peace feels wrong?
You might be caught in the hidden addiction almost nobody talks about: chaos.
In this episode, Danny breaks down why families so often get hooked on the drama surrounding their addicted loved one — and how to break free from it. You’ll learn:
What “chaos addiction” really is and why your nervous system craves it
Signs you might be more entangled in the chaos than you realize
The science behind cortisol and trauma bonding (in plain English)
Practical steps to retrain your body and mind to find safety in peace
Why real love doesn’t live in survival mode — it creates space for healing
👉 Whether you’re a parent, spouse, or sibling, this conversation will give you tools to step out of the cycle of chaos and start reclaiming your peace.
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Episode 110:Addicted to the Chaos: The Trap Hiding in Plain Sight

In this episode, Danny and Emily expose the 4 most common lies families believe that keep addiction alive—even when they’re doing everything they can to help.
You’ll learn how addiction twists love into guilt, how faith can be weaponized by shame, and why trying to “save” your loved one can actually keep everyone stuck. Most importantly, you’ll hear the truth that sets families free—and the steps to start changing things right now.
🎯 What you’ll take away:
The 4 lies that quietly fuel the cycle of chaos
How to recognize when “helping” is actually hurting
A new perspective that gives you peace, not guilt
How to lead your loved one toward lasting change
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Episode 111:The 4 Lies That Keep Families Stuck in Addiction

When your loved one finally goes to treatment, everyone expects you to feel relieved—but what if what you really feel is angry?
In this episode, Danny and Emily unpack the emotional crash that often hits families once the chaos pauses. You’ll learn why resentment, exhaustion, and even jealousy are normal—and how to use this time not just to vent, but to heal, reset, and prepare for the next phase of recovery.

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Episode 112: He's in Rehab...And I'm ANGRY!

Your addicted loved one doesn’t get to decide what kind of holiday you have.
In this special  Holiday Episode, we give you clear strategies to:
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• set healthy holiday boundaries
• avoid common emotional traps
• create a plan that keeps your peace intact
If you’ve ever felt like addiction ruins every holiday, this episode will give you tools, perspective, and confidence to change that—for you and your family.

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Episode 113: HOLIDAY CHAOS: How to Keep Your Loved One From Hijacking Your Peace.

America leads the world in porn consumption, and it shows in the  shattered lives of families of every socioeconomic class, religion, age range, and background. It is the silent epidemic that  fractures the heart of millions of families. Porn and sex addiction are as toxic to the spirit and soul as any other addiction, but because it is invisible to the eye, family support  and resources are scarce if not impossible to find.  This episode provides practical steps, resources, and support for anyone facing this gut wrenching situation inside their home. Whether it be a spouse, child, or extended family member that is struggling -  Danny and Emily not only validate the experiences so many share  but they guide you through next steps so you don't have to fight this battle alone. 

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114: Porn,Sex Addiction and The Family Fall Out

Do we protect our kids by keeping the truth from them—or by telling them the truth?And what about the rest of the family?

In this episode, Danny and Emily address one of the most painful and complicated questions families facing addiction wrestle with: Should we tell the kids? Should we tell the family?

Many families believe silence is protection. But when addiction is present, secrecy often creates confusion, fear, and emotional chaos—especially for children who can sense when something is wrong but don’t have the words to understand it.

In this conversation, we explore:
Why kids already know more than we think
How secrecy can lead children to internalize blame and fear
The emotional cost of asking families to “keep the peace” by keeping secrets
The difference between harmful oversharing and healthy, age-appropriate honesty.
How truth—handled with care—can actually create safety and healing
This episode is not about judgment. It’s about guiding families toward love that protects, love that empowers, and love that heals.

Because our secrets keep us sick—and healing often begins when the silence ends.

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Episode 115 : Should We Tell the Kids What’s Really Going On?

Danny Deaton, a Family Addiction Recovery expert, and his wife Emily offer a raw, honest, and deeply personal perspective on addiction, marriage, faith, and family life. Drawing from their own journeys through teenage pregnancy, adoption, drug addiction, and incarceration, they bring an authentic voice to these challenging topics. Together, they founded Living Proof Recovery Service, a program dedicated to supporting families affected by addiction, and The Living Proof Family Foundation, a nonprofit focused on providing crucial support and education to those struggling with addiction. They’ve built these organizations from the ground up, all while raising their three children together, which they consider their greatest success. This dynamic couple welcomes you into their world, sharing the highs, lows, and everything in between with open hearts and unwavering transparency. Tune in for a conversation that feels like family, where you’ll find hope, strength, and authenticity in every episode.
 
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