Jade Luna is back on the show! He has been my astrologer for&nbsp;nearly a decade and gives us insight on what's been happening in the&nbsp;world and what we can expect. Jade has been one of the most successful Astrologers in the world and has maintained a high level practice for over 18&nbsp;years. He&nbsp;is the first Westerner ever to reconstruct Jyotish (Hindu Astrology) into a Greco-Roman format.&nbsp;&nbsp;Jade has traveled extensively around the planet, lecturing and conducting workshops on Astrology and mysticism. He has traveled to India more than 30 times and spent a great deal of time with various teachers, Saints and Sadhu's in Asia.&nbsp;Jade consults with people privately. He usually presents a few seminars each year at various locations world wide.

CC: Lessons from the stars with Astrologer Jade Luna

In this episode, Christine engages in a coaching call with Shelley, who is grappling with the ramifications of her fear of loss in her relationships. Through deep, introspective conversation, Christine helps Shelley uncover the ways in which her attempts to avoid loss may actually be precipitating the very outcomes she fears. Consider/Ask Yourself:   Do you often find yourself sabotaging situations not intentionally, but as a protective measure?   Are you hyper-vigilant in your relationships, constantly preparing for the worst?  Can you recognize how your fear of loss might be contributing to the problems you experience in relationships?  &nbsp; Guest Insights:   Shelley shares her struggles as a highly sensitive person who takes things personally and tends to anticipate negative outcomes, even in positive situations.  She realizes her need for control stems from a deep-seated fear of unexpected negative outcomes, which she tries to preempt by focusing on the negative possibilities.  Aha Moments:   Recognizing that preparing for the worst as a way of coping with fear can inadvertently bring about negative outcomes.  Understanding that her protective behaviors, while meant to safeguard her from pain, are keeping her from experiencing deeper connections and joy in relationships.  How to Get Over It:           Embrace vulnerability by acknowledging and expressing fears without letting them dictate behaviors.   Work on shifting focus from potential loss to the potential for joy and fulfillment in relationships.  Consider therapy or coaching to address underlying fears and learn healthier coping mechanisms.  Social Media Info:  Follow Christine on Instagram  &nbsp; Tweet your insights to Christine  Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.

Episode 450: How Your Fear of Loss Could Actually Lead to Loss with Shelley

Some women are childfree by choice while others are childless due to circumstances, not choice. Lana Manikowski:&nbsp;, Keynote Speaker, Infertility Activist and Founder of “The Other's Day Brunch” is on a mission to show that infertile women can create the life of their dreams, even when it didn’t turn out as planned. When a 7-year fertility journey ended without a child - and donor egg &amp; adoption wasn’t for her - Lana yearned for a community who could understand the loneliness, self judgment and grief around navigating a childless future. When she couldn’t find one, she established in 2021 by launching&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; In her coaching practice,&nbsp;Lana helps women navigate a life unexpected. Her 4-part coaching foundation helps guide women through the rediscovery of their purpose, meaning and joy, so they can build a future they truly love. Learn more here:&nbsp;

CC: Infertility and Celebrating "Others Day" with Lana Manikowski

In this insightful episode of "Over It and On with It," host Christine Hasler explores a deeply resonant topic—navigating and resolving anger towards one's mother. Our guest, Sarah, shares her struggles with frequent negative interactions with her mother, which are often marred by impatience and rudeness, despite her mother's consistent kindness. This conversation delves into the root causes of Sarah's feelings, the broader implications of parental relationships, and practical steps for healing and self-nurturing. Consider/Ask Yourself:   Do you have unresolved anger or resentment towards a parent that affects your current interactions?   How have your childhood experiences shaped your emotional responses to your parents today?   Are you able to meet your emotional needs independently, or do you find yourself seeking fulfillment from your parents? &nbsp;   Guest Insights:   Sarah recognizes her anger stems from past unmet needs during her childhood, exacerbated by her mother's inability to protect her from an abusive situation.  The conversation reveals Sarah's desire for her mother to push back against her, reflecting her unresolved needs for assertiveness and protection.  Aha Moments:   Realizing the necessity of mourning the 'ideal' parent and accepting the limitations of what one's parents can provide.  Understanding the importance of becoming the source of comfort and security that one sought from their parents.  How to Get Over It:   Embrace self-mothering by acknowledging and nurturing one's inner child.   Implementing practical exercises like visualizations where Sarah comforts her younger self, promoting healing.           Establishing boundaries and new emotional frameworks that do not rely on parental validation. Sponsor:       Caraway Cookware: Non-toxic cookware that combines modern aesthetics with functionality. Special discounts available for listeners at .       Social Media Info:  Follow Christine on Instagram  Tweet your insights to Christine  Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.

Episode 451: How Not to Be Angry at Your Mother with Sarah

If you are navigating any kind of change or are considering making a choice that feels authentic&nbsp;but you question how it will impact others, don't miss this episode.&nbsp; Life Coach, author and speaker&nbsp; Andrea Owen joins Christine to talk about identity shifts and making choices from our intuition, not our trauma.&nbsp; Andrea is creating a global impact in women’s empowerment with her books being translated into 19 languages and available in 23 countries.  She helps high-achieving women maximize unshakeable confidence, master their mindset, and magnify their courage. You can learn more at .

CC: Life Transitions and Making (often hard) Self-Honoring Choices

Welcome to Over It and On With It. I'm your host, Christine Hassler. For over a decade, I've been a life coach, speaker, and author. Each week, you'll hear me work directly with a caller as I coach them through a goal they want to accomplish or an obstacle they may be facing. I'll provide a blend of practical and spiritual advice as well as tangible actions you can apply to your own life. Now let's get on with the episode. Summary In this episode, Christine speaks with Samantha, who is struggling with emotional attachments to two past romantic relationships she ended. Despite being the one to end both relationships, Samantha finds herself constantly thinking about her ex-partners, missing the companionship, and fantasizing about what could have been. Christine helps Samantha uncover the deeper emotional issues rooted in her childhood, specifically her relationship with her father, which have influenced her current difficulties in moving on from these relationships. Consider/Ask Yourself  Are you ruminating or obsessing over past relationships? Do you have unresolved issues from childhood with your parents? Are you still hoping for one of your parents to change and give you what you always wanted?  Guest Insights  Samantha admits that her attachment to past relationships is a way to avoid feeling the actual pain of their endings. She acknowledges that fantasizing about what could have been is a way to distract herself from the hurt. She identifies with a fearful avoidant attachment style, which she believes is linked to her "father wound." Samantha describes her father as someone who was both absent and inconsistent, leading to a deep-seated fear of being alone and unlovable. Christine helps Samantha realize that she has been projecting her unmet childhood needs onto her romantic relationships. Samantha's fear of being alone stems from childhood experiences and a longing for her father's approval and love.  Aha Moments  Christine emphasizes that feeling the pain and moving through it is necessary to avoid repeating the same mistakes in future relationships. By not fully processing the pain, Samantha has been unable to move on. The concept of the "Christ year" at age 33 is significant for personal awakening and transformation. Samantha, being 33, is at a pivotal point where she can choose to either continue her old patterns or embrace deep healing and change. Christine advises Samantha to stop seeing her loneliness as a problem to fix but as a necessary phase to fully experience and understand. By doing this, Samantha can break the cycle of seeking relationships to fill the void left by her father.  How to Get Over It  Feel the Loneliness: Samantha is encouraged to fully feel her loneliness without trying to escape it through distractions or new relationships. This process will help her develop resilience and self-reliance. Inner Child Healing: Christine suggests that Samantha engage in inner child work to address the unresolved issues with her father. This can involve journaling, therapy, and self-reflection to give her inner child the love and validation she missed. Seek Professional Help: Working with a therapist, especially one trained in somatic therapy, can help Samantha stay connected to her body and process her emotions in a healthy way. Practical Exercises: Samantha should write down the truth about her past relationships, focusing on what didn’t work, to ground herself in reality and avoid idealizing her ex-partners. Additionally, she should ask herself how her thoughts make her feel and if she likes feeling that way, then consciously choose thoughts that lead to feelings of peace and freedom.  Sponsor  Storyworth: Preserve precious memories and stories from your father or father figures for years to come. Save $10 on your first purchase when you visit .  Social Media Info:  Follow Christine on Instagram  Tweet your insights to Christine  Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over...

Episode 452: The Opportunity That Failed Relationships Provide Us With, with Samantha

Thais and Christine talk about what exactly "limerence" is and how it is different from the infatuation&nbsp;stage of a relationship. We go deep into what caused it and how we can get out of it.&nbsp; &nbsp; Thais Gibson has a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in modalities such as CBT, NLP, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, and shadow work. She has nearly a decade of experience running a successful private practice. This diverse background has culminated in creating Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, an innovative framework uniting traditional attachment theory, developmental psychology insights, and potent subconscious reprogramming techniques that are woven throughout the course material within The Personal Development School, taught within our innovative coach training program and in her most recent book, Learning Love.  You can get 25% off the price of enrollment at The Personal Development School () if you use the promo code christine25off&nbsp;

CC: Is it infatuation or Limerence with Thais Gibson

In this episode, Christine Hassler coaches Liv, who is experiencing a significant life transition and is unsure about her career and future. Liv has worked with children as a teacher, babysitter, and nanny, but now she feels the urge to explore other professional paths. She struggles with guilt over leaving her current line of work and fears the uncertainty of pursuing new opportunities. Consider/Ask Yourself:  Are you feeling the urge to make a change or has a change been forced upon you? How did your upbringing shape your views on failure and success? Do you rely on your job as a safety net? What is your relationship with uncertainty, and are you willing to change your beliefs to improve it?  Guest Insights:  Liv is transitioning from a familiar career working with children to exploring new professional opportunities. She feels overwhelmed by the thought of leaving a job that she loves but also wants to pursue personal growth. Liv struggles with balancing her desire to serve others with her need for self-fulfillment. She feels a deep need for control and certainty, which stems from her upbringing, where failure had severe consequences. Liv's primary challenge is to reprogram her beliefs and embrace uncertainty as part of her growth.  Aha Moments:  Liv recognized that her current job should not be seen as a safety net but as a stepping stone to new opportunities. She identified the need to create a new relationship with uncertainty and develop an internal sense of safety. Liv realized that her belief that she cannot make money doing what she loves is a limiting belief that needs updating.  How to Get Over It:  Liv should focus on updating her limiting beliefs, such as "I can't make money doing what I love" to "People are interested in what I have to offer and it adds value to their lives." Embrace the belief that prioritizing her own growth is not selfish but essential for serving others more effectively. Take one step at a time and recognize that safety and certainty come from within, not from external jobs or situations. Engage in pattern interrupt techniques to shift from fear-based decisions to ones based on authenticity and alignment.  Sponsor:  Cozy Earth offers hypoallergenic, organic bamboo sheets that are breathable and comfortable. Use Promo Code “OVER IT" at cozyearth.com for 35% off  &nbsp; Social Media Info:    Follow Christine on Instagram  Tweet your insights to Christine  Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.

EP 452: How to Make Changes When You Don't Have Certainty or a Plan with Liv

If you're feeling boxed in by your current path, maybe it's time to think about how your skills can open new doors—not just for others, but for yourself too. If you’ve ever thought about what it might be like to teach others what you know or create a business doing what you love, don’t miss this episode. &nbsp; Your skills can be the key to unlocking new doors, not just for others, but for you too.&nbsp; &nbsp; Tune in as my guest Dean Graziosi, New York Times bestselling author and esteemed entrepreneur, and I discuss what it takes to become an entrepreneur…how to overcome the fears and limiting beliefs and step into your legacy. &nbsp; Together, Dean and Tony Robbins are hosting a FREE 3-day workshop on June 13th - 15th called “The Game Has Changed” with some amazing special guests. In this 3 day event they are going to reveal for the first time their “2024 roadmap to more” in today’s crazy economy. More freedom, more time, more joy, more income… more whatever makes YOU happy. &nbsp; Go here to register:&nbsp;

CC: How to Build The Life, Career and Business You Love with Dean Graziosi

In this episode, Christine helps Mariel navigate the complex feelings following a breakup that has left her struggling to move on. Despite ending the relationship almost a year ago, Mariel finds herself still emotionally entangled and unable to let go. Christine delves into the deeper issues stemming from Mariel’s childhood, particularly her relationship with her father, to uncover the root causes of her emotional struggle. Summary: Mariel ended a relationship due to her partner’s addiction issues, but she is finding it disproportionately difficult to move on. Christine explores the deeper emotional wounds from Mariel’s childhood, especially those related to her father, which may be contributing to her current emotional state. The conversation reveals the importance of addressing and healing childhood wounds to move forward in adult relationships. Consider/Ask Yourself:  Is there something on your mind you can't let go of, whether it's a relationship or something else? Have you been in a relationship with someone who had many good qualities but one major deal breaker? Do you often project your feelings or handling of situations onto others? Do you truly believe you are worthy of the kind of love you desire?  Guest Insights:  Mariel feels confused about why she is struggling so much to move on from a relatively short relationship. The relationship ended due to her partner's addiction, a pattern familiar from her previous marriage. Despite setting boundaries and ending the relationship, Mariel finds herself still emotionally attached and missing her ex-partner. Mariel has a history of attracting men who cannot process their emotions healthily, reflecting unresolved issues with her father.  Aha Moments:  Christine points out the importance of addressing the deeper issues from Mariel’s childhood to move on. Mariel recognizes that her ex-partner’s addiction and avoidance are reminiscent of her father’s emotional unavailability and anger. Understanding that her struggle is more about her own unresolved issues than about the ex-partner helps Mariel see the situation more clearly.  How to Get Over It and On With It:  Identify and confront the truths about the past relationship to move on from the fantasy. Work on healing the father wound and improving self-worth. Focus on developing a nurturing relationship with the inner child to address unmet emotional needs. Prioritize self-love and boundaries to avoid falling into similar patterns in future relationships.  Sponsors:  Cozy Earth: Get 30% off your purchase at  using promo code "OVERIT." Enjoy comfortable and temperature-regulating bedding products designed with viscose from bamboo.  Social Media Info:  Follow Christine on Instagram  Tweet your insights to Christine  Join us next week for another insightful episode where we help you get over it and on with the life you love.

EP 454: Navigating the Father Wound with Mariel

This is A MUST LISTEN for anyone on the personal growth path!!&nbsp; Listen in to a juicy conversation with Danielle about her latest book, White Hot Truth: Clarity for keeping it real on your spiritual path from one seeker to another.&nbsp; Danielle LaPorte is an invited member of Oprah’s inaugural Super Soul 100, a group who, in Oprah Winfrey’s words, “is uniquely connecting the world together with a spiritual energy that matters.”&nbsp; She is author of The Fire Starters Sessions, and The Desire Map: A Guide To Creating Goals With Soul—the book that has been translated into 8 languages, evolved into a yearly day planner and journal system, a top 10 iTunes app, and an international workshop program with licensed facilitators in 15 countries.&nbsp; Danielle’s website: http://www.daniellelaporte.com/ Get your copy of “White Hot Truth”: http://www.daniellelaporte.com/whitehottruth/ &nbsp;

CC: White Hot Truth with Danielle LaPorte

Christine Hassler is an author, life coach and speaker who is known for inspiring radical self-reflection with practical direction. Christine is the author of two best selling books and is currently working on her third entitled: "Expectation Hangovers®  - How to Leverage Disappointment.” She’s appeared on: The Today Show, CNN, ABC, CBS, FOX, E!, Style, and The New York Times.  Christine is a spokesperson for American Express Millennial Advocacy Program and serves on the faculty at the University of Santa Monica teaching programs in Spiritual Psychology.

CC: White Hot Truth with Danielle LaPorte

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