Audience Q&A's

Brené Brown- Listening To Shame - From YouTube

Muralidhara Hey Ghanashyama: Hari

Centre Bhajans, 2018

Ram Dhun Lage - Puja

Sri Sathya Sai Aradhana Mahotsavam 2018, Youth Program

Sai Naamamey

In this episode I answer the audience question: Do you any tips on what to do about "social anxiety" around applying for a new job? I get overwhelmed every time I apply, feeling that I’m not enough and that I’ll hate the job when I get it…

For helpful resources around this issue check out this book:
https://amzn.to/2Qwq73O

And for skills around this issue, check out this book:
https://amzn.to/2Qs4kdx

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Audience Q&A's: How to Deal with Self-Doubt Around Applying for Jobs

This is a combo Q&A episode all about how to deal with the pain and courage needed to deal with a breakup. Four people had questions about leaving a relationship and struggling with that decision. The questions are as follows: 

>> How can especially sensitive people stand by their decision to leave a relationship and resist urges to go back and try harder? 

>> What are some healthy ways to deal with intense nostalgia when it strikes and convinces you that you left a perfect relationship?

>>Despite knowing this person is not right for me, my brain goes into survival mode and has this insane desperation to continue to reach out and repair. Also is hard to see red flags when you’re in it; hindsight is 20/20

>>Is it possible to stop loving someone when you don’t want to love them anymore?
I already consciously decided to leave the relationship I’m currently in but the thought of actually initiating a break up literally sounds like the worst thing ever. 

The book I think will help that I mention during the episode can be found here:
https://amzn.to/2SaZr6f

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Aud Q&A’s: How to Stick to a Breakup When You Feel Weak and Confused

Avo pyare Nayana Hamare

Zero Hour: Nocturnal

This track came out of my recent re-appreciation for the stunning music of Astor Piazzolla. 
Being a guitarist I was influenced by many players that have translated Piazzolla's music to guitar. His music was adapted for guitar by request of the Assad brothers, for whom he wrote a guitar Suite. Later Al Di Meola adapted the tango and Piazolla to his guitar music and recently Dominic Miller on his Absinthe album gently hints on this familiar sound using a Bandoneon for melody. I love the romantic and dark atmosphere in the Tango Nuevo of Piazzolla. His best work, in his opinion, was Zero Hour, an album I was mesmerized by when it was released. Hence the name for this track...

Hoping you'll enjoy this piece for three acoustic guitars with some upright bass and percussion added. As Always I enjoy your comments, likes and shares. 
-Dan

Photo I took in Trogir, Croatia, a few days ago (May 10th, 2019), edited to a night scene in Photoshop.

All music, guitars, bass and percussion, arrangements and recording by Daniël van den Berg, May 2019.
Guitar: Joan Cashimira, modelo 145, spruce top w/ cocobolo sides and back, Gata de Gorgos (Alicante), 2015
Recorded using an Apogee MiC.
Mixed in Auria, masterered in Auria and Final Touch.
Upright bass and percussion using Sampletank.
Photo edit by Dan van den Berg, 2019

Zero Hour : Nocturnal | Dan van den Berg

This is for anyone who get triggered around a family member or other person in their life, but you have decided that you want to continue to be around this person – despite this trigger. So really – these are management tools for tolerating these interactions. This is from a listener who has to endure some triggers around a family member. When this person is there, they feel drained and irritated – so these are some tools for a similar situation. This is a very difficult (and sadly, common) experience – the gist is how to manage the experience of being around a triggering person if you’re still working on your shit in therapy. As with all my episodes – three parts: What, why and how the tools. 

If you’d like to see more of my writing or make a donation, head to YayWithMe.com xo!

Ep 115: How to deal with people who trigger you

If you are one of those people who debates things in your mind endlessly, shuts down, isolates – this is for you. This is for you only if you find that this is causing you issues in your communication with others, difficulty in your relationships or perhaps you notice that its affecting your confidence. 
 
This might be especially relevant for anyone out there who is heading back home for the holidays – if you return to your family of origin, all sorts of old drama can come up. You become a very sensitive organ reacting to very old wounds.  

There’s a lot in here about triggering family members and how to negotiate that situation. Shout out to two listeners in particular! Hope this helps! Xox

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Ep 121: Inner Dialogues: When Others Trigger Us + We Get Stuck in Our Heads

In this episode, I am going to tackle a question from the audience (how to deal with rejection) and then go right into some tools!  How to deal with rejection is a big one! It’s a muscle you have to intentionally grow. But quite literally it’s one of the most valuable muscles you can have because it means you move through life directly – with purpose, not guided by fear. It also means you grow exponentially. There are two pains in rejection: the loss of something imagined/the sadness of mourning. And second - the injury to ego. This second pain is the one that tends to fuck us up the most. Hopefully, I will offer you some tools for managing these pains and helping yourself move through rejection more quickly and positively, in the future!

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Audience Q&A’s: Dealing with Rejection

To listen to all Bhajans, please get the 'Prasanthi Mandir Bhajans' (2007-2008) from Sai Blossom Stores in Prasanthi Nilayam. 

Rama Sriramachandra Jaya Jaya Rama

#Sai94 | Living with Sai (Original Play Soundtrack)

Om Namah Shivaya (Chant)

Urdu Friday Sermon delivered by Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad (Head of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community) on the 28 August 2020.

Friday Sermon 28 August 2020 (Urdu): The Promised Messiah and Mahdi : Hakam and Adl

"Albumblatt" in the Style of Mendelssohn

Help Me Be Me is an emotional toolkit for creating positive change in yourself. I like to think of it as self-help for people who hate self-help. I'm Sarah May, coach/mom/all-around happy person, and these are the tools that work for me in my life. For all of my offerings you can check out YayWithMe.com What I share is my personal opinion. It's not a diagnosis for treatment or a substitute for professional help. If you're suffering, please reach out to your local emergency services or call 9-1-1. Music theme created by www.BookerHillMusic.com

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