You can do a lot of great work on yourself with a journal. If you want to try and work through a problem, or you want to start a journal but don’t know what to write about, this is an episode for you. It can also be really confusing as to what to talk about. Especially if nothing flows. 

The journal I use is this one:
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Ep 142: Self-Dialoguing - How to Do Self-Work in a Journal

Tools for regaining a sense of autonomy and self-confidence if you find that you are clinging and overly sensitive to the opinions of others. So if you are in a codependent relationship or you feel trapped in that fear-based loop that can happen when you are too consumed by a relationship, and you feel small and powerless, this is an episode for you. These are exercises – both physical and written- to do in order to condition your mind and body to resume a more empowered headspace.  Strong. Self-assured. If you are feeling reliant on someone else or something else – like your value is somehow dictated by that thing, try starting here. I did these steps myself recently and found them to be re-centering and enlightening.

Ep 145: Regaining Confidence and Autonomy When Feeling Clingy + Small

"Yo tendría primero una respuesta de orden general: 

Son temas en los que el presidente, y particularmente un servidor, no va a opinar, porque son temas que tienen su propia regulación. 
Yo creo que lo que...me parece...que.....
Estoy diciendo que no voy a opinar y empiezo a opinar"

El hombre que odiaba las naranjas / Infrastructure (Get Lucky Remix)

This meditation is based on the Mindful-Self Compassion program developed by Dr. Kristen Neff and Dr. Christopher Germer. To learn more about their program, please visit their websites: www.self-compassion.org and www.mindfulselfcompassion.org

Self-Compassion Break

20 minute guided meditation / iRest Yoga Nidra for Inner Strength.
Want other audio meditations like this? Download the free app: Yoga for Better Health - www.yogabetterhealth.com/ybh-app

IRest Yoga Nidra / Guided Meditation for Inner Strength

The wolf pack you hear on the files are recorded in Sweden last summer. More specific in Bergslagen. An area with wonderful nature, forests and wilderness.

A quiet summer night, light fog over the moors in the forests you can hear this wonderful concerts. But you need to know where In Sweden, there are only around 35 wolf packs.

This pack consists of the alpha male and the female, three youngsters from last year and five puppies from this year.

On this first file, in a series, are the three youngsters from last year on their own. The distance between me and the wolf pack is around 175 yards / 160 meters. Between us is a moor with light fog. It is a wonderful nordic summer night with no wind.

This is one of my first recordings with a Telinga PRO-8 MK2 stereo parabolic dish connected to a ZOOM recorder. 
Recordings have some post production. 

The howling wolf in the picture is the alpha female of the pack.

Please contact me for more info: http://www.bentmar.com/
Copyright Mats Bentmar.
www.telinga.com

Wolf Pack Youngsters recorded by Mats Bentmar using a Telinga PRO-8 MK2 dish (stereo)

2019-12-20 at Spirit Rock Meditation Center

Oren Jay Sofer

Mindfulness of Thinking

Fragments from the forthcoming multi-disc release “The Last Things” by Phil Tomsett & the Inventors of Aircraft.

Wist Rec 29 takes a psychogeographic tour of Paul Auster’s ‘In the Country of Last Things’ though set in a small village to which our protagonist ventures to. 
https://wistrec.com/wist-rec-029-2/

Phil Tomsett & the Inventors of Aircraft, The Last Things (fragments)

This is an episode for if you have a painful obsession with an ex or a pervasive habit of fixating on relationships: they’re more important than job, personal time, family and friends. And often that relationship is one you know isn’t great – but you still obsess about that person, and it consumes your life. This might be especially painful during quarantine because you’re unable to distract yourself and do something about it.

This is about putting yourself in ridiculously desperate positions, clinging to a relationship – even when you know it isn’t right for you. And that gush of fear, terror, loneliness, pain that overwhelms you and causes you to feel like you’d do ANYTHING to get someone to come back to you. It can make you act in crazy and degrading ways – but the pain of not having a person is too great. This was a request from a few different people (some of whom requested it quite a long time ago - so hopefully this is still helpful)!!

The two books I mention in this episode are here:
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https://amzn.to/35IuJsU

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Ep 130: Clinging Desperately to Relationships – Even When They’re Not Great

Please help to find missing titles, Thx:
1. Les Negresses Vertes - Face A La Mer - Massive Attack Remix Instrumental (0:00 - 3:45)
2. Enigma - Age of Loneliness - Jam & Spoon Remix (3:45 - 7:40)
3. ?????Unknown Tribal Electro????? (7:40 - 10:35)
4. One Dove - White Love - Meet The Professionals Dub (10:35 - 13:35)
5. ?????Unknown Techno????? (13:35 - 14:55)
6. Afrotrance - Flying Dreams (14:55 - 19:45)
7. Mental Generation - Cafe Del Mar - Dub Heaven Underworld Remix (19:45 - 23:30)
8. Sandals - Nothing - Original 12 '' Dub Version (23:30 - 26:25)
9. Los Vampiros - Carnavalito 2000 (26:25 - 30:10)
10. Malik - Lila (30:10 - 33:00)
11. Jubaba - Ritmo de Bom Bom - Copa Mix (33:00 - 37:00)
12. Bjork - Human Behaviour - The Underworld Remix (37:00 - 38:50)
13. Gemelli Ruggeri - Basta (38:50 - 41:35)
14. David Morales and The Bad Yard Club featuring Papa San - The Program - Ragga Mix (41:35 - 45:15)
15. US3 - Tukka Yoot's Riddim - Roberto's Riddim (45:15 - 49:25)
16. Loop Guru - Paradigm Shuffle (The Bird Of Paradise) (49:25 - 52:05)
17. Carpe Diem - Snake Charmer - Club Mix (52:05 - 56:30)
18. ?????Unknown Ragga House (Dance with your friend)????? (56:30 - 58:45)
19. ?????Unknown Progressive House????? (58:45 - 60:55)
20. Black Warriors - Alubale' Alubale' - Africa Mix (58:45 - End)

69 (1993)

DJ Fary (IT) - 69 - New Funky Afro - 1993 (Tape Recording)

Le Discograph est un rendez vous qui a lieu 4 fois dans l'année à La Passerelle, scène nationale de Saint-Brieuc avec pour chaque soirée une thématique.

Parfois omniprésente, toujours essentielle, la musique de films est un art délicat : elle se doit d’accompagner avec finesse et caractère les images à l’écran. Mais au-delà de son apport esthétique, c’est un langage à part entière, au fort pouvoir émotionnel sur le spectateur.

S’appuyant sur des morceaux spécialement composés pour des bandes originales de films, Julien Tiné nous propose une sélection de ses thèmes musicaux préférés. C'est pour la musique elle-même ou par amour des films - et bien souvent les deux ! - que les choix se sont faits. Des compositeurs tels qu'Ennio Morricone, Philippe Sarde ou Vladimir Cosma auraient pu valoir à eux seuls un mix, les B.O. de films de genre tels que les films d'horreur ou la blaxploitation également.

On peut se perdre assez vite dans cet univers alors… laissez-vous aller à cette B.O. imaginaire !

Playlist : 

01 - Philippe Sarde - Beau Père (Beau Père)
02 - Miles Davis - L'assasinat de Carala (Ascenseur pour l'échafaud)
03 - David Shire - Amy's Theme (The conversation)
04 - Ennio Morricone - Immoralita (L'immoralita)
05 - Bill Conti - Philadelphia Morning (Rocky)
06 - Vladimir Cosma - Etienne et Charlotte (Un éléphant ca trompe énormément)
07 - Sebastien - J'adore Godard
08 - Karl Heinz Schafer - Les Preuves (Les gants blancs du diable)
09 - Alain Goraguer - Le Bracelet (La Planète sauvage)
10 - Nico Fidenco - The meal is over (Black Emmanuelle)
11 - Vladimir Cosma - Le Grand blond avec une chaussure noire 
12 - Ennio Morricone - Le Casse (Le Casse)
13 - Roland Vincent - LSD Partie (Delphine)
14 - Michel Magne - Thème de Fantomas (Fantomas)
15 - Mica Levi - Children (Jackie)
16 - John Williams - Jaws (Les dents de la mer)
17 - John Carpenter - He Came Home (Halloween)
18 - Popol Vuh - Der Marktplatz (Cobra Verde)
19 - Goblin - Profondo Rosso (Profondo Rosso)
20 - Riz Ortolani - Adulteress Punishment (Cannibal Holocaust)
21 - Serge Gainsbourg - Jane dans la nuit (Cannabis)
22 - Pierre Bachelet - O et Sir Stephen (Hisoire d'O)
23 - Air - Afternoon sister (Virgin Suicides)
24 - Emmanuelle Arzan - Laure
25 - Alain Goraguer - La comtesse se dévergonde (Erotica)
26 - Curtis Mayfield - Pusherman (Superfly)
27 - Marvin Gaye - T stands for trouble (Trouble Man)
28 - Roy Ayers - Escape (Coffy)
29 - Piero Umiliani - Hard Times (Il Corpo)
30 - François de Roubaix - Xavier à la maison d'arrêt (La Scoumoune)
31 - Philippe Sarde - La lettre de Rosalie (César & Rosalie)
32 - Robin Guthrie & Harold Budd - Neil's farewell (Mysterious Skin)
33 - Gabriel Yared - C'est le vent Betty (37,2 le matin)
34 - Charlélie Couture - Corde raide acoustique (Tchao Pantin)
35 - Angelo Badalamenti - Love theme from Twin Peaks (Twin Peaks)
36 - Michael Andrews - The artifact & living (Donnie Darko)
37 - Clint Mansell - First Sleep (Solaris)
38 - Vincent Gallo - Her smell theme (The way it is)
39 - George Delerue - Thème de Camille (Le mépris)

xx

Discograph "Musique de films"

Help Me Be Me is an emotional toolkit for creating positive change in yourself. I like to think of it as self-help for people who hate self-help. I'm Sarah May, coach/mom/all-around happy person, and these are the tools that work for me in my life. For all of my offerings you can check out YayWithMe.com What I share is my personal opinion. It's not a diagnosis for treatment or a substitute for professional help. If you're suffering, please reach out to your local emergency services or call 9-1-1. Music theme created by www.BookerHillMusic.com