We’re all trying to stand out. Maybe you want a promotion. Maybe you want more clients. Maybe you just want to be recognised for who you really are. But most of us end up following the same script as everyone else, then wonder why we get lost in the crowd. In this episode, I get brutally honest about how to break that cycle and actually get noticed.

I talk about what it feels like to think you are nothing special. Maybe you come from a perceived vanilla background. Maybe you believe you do not have a big dramatic story. I share how every moment in your life, every skill you have, every quirk and random talent is exactly what makes you stand out. From performing as a kid, teaching in the cubby house, singing to crops, to always having something to say, it all counts.

If you have ever struggled with imposter syndrome or felt invisible, I show you how to claim your strengths, own your story, and see the value in your lived experience. You do not need to shrink yourself. You do not have to play it safe. You are the sum of every lesson, every decision, and every ounce of energy you bring. That is your point of difference.

Listen for a real permission slip to be yourself. Step up, own your space, and start doing what only you can do. Your people are out there and they are ready for you.

The Things That Make You Different



Have you ever looked back at an old photo or video and thought "Wow who even was that version of me?" I’ve been sitting with that a lot lately and wondering can I really pull off this next big reinvention?

In today’s episode of the podcast I’m pulling back the curtain on what it feels like when self doubt hits hard. Even when you’ve got the runs on the board. Even when you know your stuff.

If you’ve ever thought what if I can’t do this this one’s for you.

Find me:
www.nicolaspeaks.com
www.instagram/nicola_moras_speaks
www.linkedin.com/in/nicolamoras


Self-Doubt & Reinvention What If I Can’t Do This

In this reflective episode, Nicola takes you on a literal and metaphorical detour straight back to her childhood home, where her biggest audience was a paddock full of waving crops. What started as a simple drive turned into a powerful reminder of how our perceptions shape our reality, how childhood dreams plant the seeds of purpose, and why joy matters more than we sometimes realise.

If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “Is this what I signed up for?” this one is for you.

Listen now to explore:

    * How our memories and reality don’t always line up (and why that’s okay)

    * Why joy is a non-negotiable when it comes to doing meaningful work

    * How to reconnect with what you really wanted before the world told you to tone it down

Find me:
www.nicolaspeaks.com
www.instagram/nicola_moras_speaks
www.linkedin.com/in/nicolamoras

A trip down memory lane

Ever felt that rising tension in your gut that says, “This cannot go on”? That’s your trigger for change... and in this episode, I’m diving deep into it.

From putting off a simple ask to facing down uncomfortable conversations, I share the real-life moments that pushed me into action (including one unforgettable mirror moment in a Selfridges change room). I talk about what it takes to move from avoidance into alignment, and how recognising these triggers - both in yourself and in the people you lead - is the key to momentum.

Whether you're stuck in a loop, tolerating too much, or ready to flip the script in your life, business, or leadership… this episode is your invitation to stop waiting and start moving.

www.nicolaspeaks.com



Your Triggers For Change

Ever had a day where you were smashing through the to-do list, only to look up and realise you've completely skipped the one thing that keeps you grounded? Same. 

In this episode, I’m sharing a personal (and slightly chaotic) story about missing my morning walk, hyper-focusing on tasks, and realising I’d completely lost sight of the bigger picture.

From roller derby lessons to writing my own eulogy (yep, really), this is your invitation to stop staring at your feet and lift your gaze to where you’re actually heading in life and business. Because your feet already know what to do. It’s your vision that needs a check-in.

So... are you walking just to walk, or are you actually heading somewhere that matters?

www.nicolaspeaks.com 

Eyes Up

In this episode of Rockstar Success, Nicola shares the behind-the-scenes of her first big event - Sales & Marketing Spy School - where she thought she’d completely lost the audience. Blank faces, self-doubt, and a $40K roll of the dice had her questioning everything. 

But what came next was a reminder every leader, speaker, and team member needs: Just because it feels off, doesn’t mean it is. 

You’ll learn why preparation matters, how to bounce back from the inner critic, and why the “boring” stuff you know could be groundbreaking for someone else. If you’ve ever walked off stage or out of a meeting wondering if you tanked, this episode is for you.

The world is ready for your brand of awesome. Let’s go.

When Things Don't Go According To Plan

Right before the big wins... comes the wobble. Ever noticed that? In this episode, I’m lifting the lid on what really happens behind the scenes on the road to success, and why most people pull back right when they’re about to break through.

From moving cities for my son’s dreams, to leaving a DV relationship, to corporate ceilings, copycats, court threats, and comebacks, this is a real-world look at what high-achieving humans face when they’re on the edge of something bigger.

This one’s for you if you’ve been:

    Asking for more, but wondering why everything suddenly feels hard

    On the edge of burnout or breakthrough (or both)

    Feeling tested, second-guessing yourself, or ready to walk away

We’ll talk about:

    The mindset reframe that got me through the toughest times

    How to identify when you’re hitting your upper limit problem (and how to smash through it)

    Why your resilience and self-respect are non-negotiable success tools

    The difference between sabotage and strategy—and how to choose power every damn time

This episode is a reminder that the most successful people don’t avoid hard ... they rise through it. Your next level is waiting.

www.nicolaspeaks.com


Mindset Before Momentum: The Truth About Success Setbacks

The moment you say “I already know this” is the moment you stop growing.

In this episode of Rockstar Success, I’m diving into one of the biggest traps smart, experienced professionals fall into: closed-loop thinking. Whether it’s in business, leadership, sport, or life... walking into any room with an “I’ve done this before” mindset can be the very thing holding you back.

We explore:

    * What really happens when we stop being curious and start assuming

    * Why high-performers (and entire teams) can stagnate even with all the tools at their fingertips

    * The power of showing up to every opportunity with a “teach me something new” energy

    * The problem with information without implementation and how to fix it

    * Why personalisation, accountability, and commitment are what actually drive long-term success

I’ll share stories from roller derby, Unleash the Power Within, my own speaker training, and more, plus what it taught me about being a leader who learns and a learner who leads.

This episode is a must-listen if you're building a culture of high performance, championing growth in your team, or personally striving to stretch beyond what you think you already know.

Because real success? It comes from staying teachable.

www.nicolaspeaks.com

The Power of “I Know Nothing”: Why Experts Must Keep Learning

This episode is about what really happens when you’re on the edge of stepping up and standing out.

I share a story that took me from a public dressing down in a professional training room to walking through the streets of Melbourne in suede wedge boots I was terrified to wear. What started as humiliation turned into one of the most powerful visibility lessons of my life.

Inside, we talk about the fear of judgment, the pressure to play it safe, and the stories we make up about what other people might think of us. I’ll show you how those stories keep brilliant people quiet, and why it’s your job to show up anyway.

Whether you’re preparing to speak, apply for a promotion, launch something bold, or simply put yourself out there more fully, this episode is a reminder of what matters most. It is not your job to make everyone comfortable. It is your job to lead. You do not need permission to take up space.

And it is absolutely not your business what anyone else thinks of you.

You’ve got something to say. Go say it.

www.nicolaspeaks.com

It’s Not My Business What Anyone Else Thinks of Me

If you have ever decided to go all in on yourself and then found people around you suddenly turning cold, critical or weirdly unsupportive, this episode is for you.

I share a behind-the-scenes moment from 2013 when I was about to hit a new level in business. On the surface everything looked great but underneath I was burning energy trying to hold it all together while navigating resistance from people who were not keeping up. What I later learned was this. When your frequency rises the people around you can feel it. And not everyone handles that well.

We talk about what happens when you start growing and others start grabbing. leadThe subtle sabotage. The offhanded comments. The crabs-in-a-bucket behaviour that tries to drag you back down. You will learn why internal armour is essential. Why leadership means being okay with being misunderstood. And why your job is not to shrink for someone else's comfort.

This is about energy. Intention. And building resilience while you build success.

Whether you are stepping into something new in your life career or business the truth is this. Not everyone will like it. But that does not mean you stop. You are not here to stay small. You are here to lead. Own your energy. Own your impact. And let the crabs clatter.

I cannot wait to hear what this brings up for you. 

You can find me at nicolaspeaks.com. Let’s talk.

Crabs in a Bucket and the Cost of Rising

This is the podcast that turns the volume up on life, business, and being a total kickass human.

I’m Nicola Moras — motivational speaker, author, and the pocket rocket behind Rockstar Success. In this show, we go deep (and sometimes loud) on what it really takes to show up, stand out, and create a life that makes people gasp — in the best way possible.

Expect real talk, quick hits of inspo, and no-fluff conversations that get straight to the point.

Whether you're booking a speaker who brings serious energy to the stage, or you're here to shake things up in your own world — you’re in the right place.

Plug in. Turn it up. Let’s create Rockstar Success, your way.

Crabs in a Bucket and the Cost of Rising

Rockstar Success with Nicola Moras

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